Something My Gf Brought to My Attention a Couple Weeks Ago

[murph20]

Not long ago, my girlfriend and I were watching a porn which had a male pornstar having anal sex with a female pornstar. While she was laying against me on the futon (yes, a futon because we are young and poor), she randomly said, "I really, really hate anal sex. Those girls are gonna shit their pants when they get older because of it." She went on a rant of the various health related complications that can result from. Afterwards, though, she made a statement which stuck with me. "How would you like having something 10 inches or so shoved up your asshole?" Enough said. I would never want to inflict that sort of pain and discomfort to a sexual partner. Leave it to the illustrators of erotic manga and comics as well as pornstars to provide it heheh

Not to say that there may be people who enjoy being the recipient of it, but that put it in perspective for me ;-).

[Mantha]

Well, if done properly after cleaning and stimulating slowly, the anus begins to provide it's own lubrication, and opens up for penetration, so it doesn't harm the inner muscles. The only problem is this takes a lot of preperation, and not many have the patience for it...

[murph20]

lol Mantha, I'll have to refer to you as the anal expert.

[dr-zox]

Well at least in hentai there are just drawings,

In real life the porn stars often have to take lots of drugs and drink to excess in order to be happy to do it

[daeryn]

Well, I can honestly say I never thought of this... or really thought too deeply into the subject of anal sex at all. I don't entirely understand its draw, but I WILL say that it generally requires two WILLING participants... so any problems the recipient may have later on, they were definitely a party to the cause.

-Daeryn

[darkmagis]

ya anal sex is a tuffy for me their are girls that actually love it quite a few. yet they tend to do it with men less larger then 10 inches ~.~ more like 4-5 inches but in the end if done without that preparations. i have a hard time with it... but it does feel good also if done properly their should be no side affect if you keep the act to a rarely induced sexual act.

[frontline]

In all my years of drunken sex I've never stumbled across a woman who wanted anal. Though I did try it with this drunk chick once. We had to stop because it was destroying her physically and destroying me psychologically-- for some reason its hard to get turned on when all you are thinking about is "eww, poop comes out of butts and my wieners in a butt right now."

[Nitro]

There isn't really a lot in it for women. At least with guys they have a prostate for stimulation. Though that being said, a friend of mine (female) recently tried anal with her long-term partner (she is very open with her sex life) and she really enjoyed it, so I guess it takes a...required taste?

[timtom]

Some girls like it in the butt. My ex did, not with my peen, we never made it to that, but she would enjoy some action back there.

Girls can come for all sorts of reasons.

[Shadow2222]

And here I thought Anal sex was for drunken people and gay men...guess you learn something new each day.

[daeryn]

Girls can come for all sorts of reasons.

And I'd call that extremely quotable :)

However true this may be, girls still need someone else with them to keep it from being just masturbation... which, no matter how physically satisfying it might be, lacks an emotional connection with another person.

That said, some girls complain that no one else can ever get them off... but that's another discussion entirely.

-Daeryn

[buetifulred]

Lets get a girls p.o.v- I once had a good bff and her bf wanted anal because he said it would bring them "closer" I asked how it was and she said 1 inch is fine but other than that its just plain pain.But im too scared to try it so meh

[st3nroh4ever]

I had a friend who knew a guy who decided he would do the anal thing with his gf in his truck... so they started and the crapped all over him in his new truck with leather interior... now everyone halls him pooper scooper, and when people see her, the cringe

[Vixen]

That's a rather disturbing story.

[Pervysage]

Bah hahaha

[datret]

I never really understood the appeal of anal.

[Pervysage]

lol

[zm01]

lol funny story and pic

[klown]

Seems more disgusting than arousing when you think about all the factors. I mean how wierd would it be to pull your dick out with shit on it:nope:

[Nolanoth]

Seems more disgusting than arousing when you think about all the factors. I mean how wierd would it be to pull your dick out with shit on it:nope:

x2! Eh... I feel sick. I'd only do that if my loved one really wanted me to.

[darkmagis]

well i met a girl a couple months ago who was really into it if done properly their will be no problem with it experience women like her have an enema before doing so by doing that it opens up the anus also creating lubrication making anal sex easier. she was very detailed about it...she had book smarts so i feel for her a bit lol but i knew she was only using me for sex... I've gotten used to it but its good to know these things. you never know who you will really fall in love with ^-^

[Nolanoth]

well i met a girl a couple months ago who was really into it if done properly their will be no problem with it experience women like her have an enema before doing so by doing that it opens up the anus also creating lubrication making anal sex easier. she was very detailed about it...she had book smarts so i feel for her a bit lol but i knew she was only using me for sex... I've gotten used to it but its good to know these things. you never know who you will really fall in love with ^-^

Using you for sex?

I'd never get used to such things.

[FurryLover90]

I think its kinda wrong both ways, i mean...Why do you want to stick your dick in a hole thats full of shit?

its the same as just flopping it around in a pile of dog crap isint it?

Its really nasty aswell when in porn videos After anal sex the female starts giveing the male Oral aswell, eww...

[Nolanoth]

well i met a girl a couple months ago who was really into it if done properly their will be no problem with it experience women like her have an enema before doing so by doing that it opens up the anus also creating lubrication making anal sex easier. she was very detailed about it...she had book smarts so i feel for her a bit lol but i knew she was only using me for sex... I've gotten used to it but its good to know these things. you never know who you will really fall in love with ^-^

I don’t think I could ever get used to getting used for sex. That’s why I stopped drinking xD there’s nothing worse then having some drugs mixed with your vodka :nope:

But I have to agree on the last part “you never know who you will really fall in love with” but I’m not sure if it’s such a good idea. Like the OP said. It might cause health problems later. And it would bring me a great deal of inner pain and suffering to see my special someone having certain problems and difficulties. And I'm sure if any lubrication would help to prevent that from happening.

I wnated to post something like this before. But strangely the post never showed up.

[base]

hmmm everyone has their own kind of sex. Anal is 1 of it eh

[doh3rty]

anal aint really on the top of the list of things i wanna do lol i think ill stick to the stuff thats really important

[signallinglink]

same problem, my gf still never allow me to penetrate her in that hole. I think i may have to try with prostitute then... use money hehe

[donkanoji]

why the hell you show your gf a porno is beyond me

[Master Will Tupper]

Your GF is entitled to her preferences, but several of her opinions were in error. The canonical text for straight answers to questions on this subject is Tristan Taormino's "The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women" ( Cleis press, (c) 1998. ) Tris also does a column in Hustler Taboo magazine, "The Anal Advisor",alternating with Niina Hartley's "Sub Space" column.
That's _if_ anyone _really_ wants to know. Still, better to know than not know, says I.

[jmaster]

Only an exit, not an entry, is my philosophy.